More than Online Marriage Advice: How the WeConcile Program Works.
There are a lot of good (and not so good) couples therapists available. I recommend finding an EFT therapist if you choose therapy because the training they receive is excellent. The biggest disadvantage to couples therapy is cost. But having an impartial trained third party can be great.
There are a number of relationship programs available. We believe WeConcile is the best because:
It is the most extensive and comprehensive program available. It is the Mercedes Benz of relationship programs.
It follows and integrates the steps of EFT therapy, the statistically most successful couples therapy available.
It is both cognitive and experiential – it includes both audio and reading, fun exercises, quizzes, assessments, as well as guided discussions and very specific communication tools, including an extensive tool called Story Tending which walks you and your partner through communication in a step by step way. It is deep. You will learn about yourself on a deep level. You won’t be going for a quick fix but a life-changing experience.
It was created out of a desire to help as many couples as possible and offer those couples a tool that is much more comprehensive than a book or workshop and much less expensive than therapy.
As you progress through WeConcile, the learning you do is repeated in more intricate and complex ways until you and your partner have successfully integrated that learning and made the changes stick.
You can go at your own pace and learn in the privacy of your home.
When your relationship feels great, you may decide to stop, or you may decide you want to learn more.
If you stop, you can restart and continue whenever you want.
There are now a number of “programs” available. Many are CDs that come with a workbook. Some are e-books or downloadable e-book articles. Another program advertises contact with a real coach at a very low cost. Personally, I would be cautious about how much personal contact you will be getting if the program offering coaching is practically free. Many of the online couple’s programs are not extensive. They barely scratch the surface in terms of what you need to know to create effective change in yourself and your relationship. WeConcile took years of study, writing, and working with couples and with beta couples using the program to become the relationship restoration and relationship mastery program that it is. WeConcile is comprehensive and set up in a step-by-step way. You learn what you need to learn first before you move on to the next step.
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